Past Events


The Seventeenth of October was a very special day as it was the first organised event the Ladies Guild had organised after Lockdown. So 32 people duly arrived at the Shul in anticipation of enjoying a fish lunch and being entertained by a guitar player.

We certainly weren’t disappointed. The tables were set well apart so we had plenty of room and after a bit of chatting time we were asked to sit down and the plates of food arrived courtesy of the Ladies Guild. There was a choice of haddock or salmon, with a warm baked potato, coleslaw, cucumber and tomatoes and everyone happily tucked in to their food. That was followed by apple crumble and a slice of chocolate viennetta- type ice cream and tea and coffee with mints.

There was an excited buzz around the room as people chatted with each other and with people from other tables who hadn’t seen each other for a while.

Once lunch was cleared away we were entertained by a young man called Adam who sang a selection of songs while playing on his guitar. We spent an enjoyable hour or so listening to him.

After that the raffle was drawn which, as always, caused some excitement, especially among people who actually won something!

We then had another cup of tea or coffee and a cake to finish the afternoon off. Menahem thanked the Ladies guild team for providing the really delicious lunch and entertainment and that brought the afternoon to a close.

We certainly had a lovely time and I am sure everyone else did too and are very appreciative of the planning and work that went into making everything run seamlessly.

Liz Koten


The Synagogue’s 75th Year
Ruislip Synagogue has just entered its 75th year and looking forward to celebrating this special anniversary. In pre 1939 Ruislip had a couple of Jewish families. When the London Blitz began, many Jewish families evacuated to Ruislip. These families eventually met socially and then managed to organise Sabbath Services and Hebrew Classes in each other’s homes and, when possible , to hire a hall for the Yom Tovim. From 1945 the group formed a Committee and began organising fund raising events to build a Synagogue in Ruislip and by 1950.
Ruislip & District Affiliated Synagogue was consecrated. In 2017 the Synagogue became full members of United Synagogue.

Events in May
During the pandemic Covid, members have been very grateful for the Zoom Kabbalat and Havdalah Services from Ruislip Synagogue. The really good news for May was that Ruislip Synagogue officially physically reopened for Services, restarting with Shavuot. We are now back holding Friday night and Saturday morning Services.

Ruislip Social Club
Even though the Synagogue has reopened, the Ruislip Social Club is still using Zoom as its meeting place for the time being. The usual biweekly Monday Club is being hosted by Michelle and Huw Davis, beamed live from their home for which members are very grateful. The Club holds its usual tea and chat plus a fun quiz, which all enjoy. The discussions have now left behind the usual questions over whether or not someone has had the first or second vaccinations and which type they had and any side effects. Now the chat is about looking forward to being able to physically meet. Of course, everyone is hoping that it won’t be too long before as near to normal social life can begin and the Monday Club can return to meeting in the Synagogue hall for lunch, playing cards and board games for a couple of hours.

Tuesday 25 May – The British Years Between 1922/24 – Talk by Brian Pollock
Ruislip Synagogue hosted a very fascinating Zoom talk given by Brian Pollock. He is an historian and for many years was a well-respected sixth form history teacher. Brian spoke on the British years between 1922 to 24 with the focus on the three elections and four Prime Ministers, which took place during that period. The talk looked at the causal effect those turbulent political years were to have on what was to follow, in particular the build up to another world war. His talk included many film and past newspaper cuttings, including the Jewish Chronicle and details of Jewish members of Parliament during this period.

We look forward to presenting further meetings either by Zoom, or maybe events in the Synagogue Hall, which are organised by the Synagogue Council or the Ruislip Synagogue Ladies’ Guild.

Doreen Davis


Since the January Report, Ruislip US Synagogue Community has, against all odds, kept the “show” on the road.

There are regular Kabbalat and Havdalah Services including being entertained with music and song after the Havdalah Service by Marvyn Ellison, which is much appreciated.

A special Havdalah evening acknowledging United Synagogue Women’s Shabbat, was celebrated by all Ruislip members with great verve and much chatting.

A zoom Purim Fancy Dress and Megillah reading by Rabbi Stanley Coten was a great success, which aptly introduced us all to the youngest member of the Coten family – their 4 month old grandson, who joined in the celebration extremely well in full fancy dress.

The Ruislip Social Club have held their regular Monday afternoon tea and chats, which is enhanced by the now very popular short fun quiz, which has become an integral part of the zoom meetings. Many thanks to Michelle, Synagogue Administrator, and her husband Huw for compiling and running the show.

There have been some very interesting in-depth illustrated lectures followed by questions and answers. These included a talk by Dr Eliya Stromberg from Jerusalem, who spoke very eloquently regarding children with special needs.

An illustrated presentation was given by Huw Davis on the Life and Works of Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch, his studies and his near miss as Chief Rabbi for the United Synagogue.

The Chairman of Ruislip Synagogue, Menachem Briskman spoke and illustrated an erudite talk on How Biblical Accounts are Mirrored with Similar Stories from Ancient Sources regarding the Creation, the Flood and the Tower of Babel.

Rabbi Stanley Coten and Rebbetzin Rosalind Coten discussed Getting Ready for Pesach, especially bearing in mind that the first night Pesach is after Shabbos, plus the fact that the clocks go forward an hour. This event caused quite a few questions from the zoomers, which were answered very succinctly by both Stanley and Rosalind. Stanley gave an explanation on why costs of some Pesach commodities were so high and also how reliable and respected the KLBD was both in this country and abroad.

Doreen David


The past unusual year of Covid 19 has caused everyone world wide to change their normal way of life completely. It did not take long before Ruislip Community took up the challenge of assisting in many ways to ease the difficulties with which we were all going to have to contend.

A Ruislip Community WhatsApp Group was set up immediately there was Lockdown. Rabbi Stanley Coten, although very busy with, unfortunately, an even heavier load to carry as Senior Hospital Chaplain, has given us weekly video messages to uplift our spirits.

The Rabbi has also arranged for weekly interesting Shiurs and chats, including zoom meetings with other Synagogues including two visits to Parramatta & District Synagogue, Sydney, Australia the second visit was for Chanucah and Ruislip helped to judge a picture competition. Also a zoom to Toronto for an entertaining evening of song and stories from Rabbi Gedalia Zweig.

Rebbetzin Rosalind Coten organised a very interesting meeting linking Ruislip for a joint event with Norwich and Southport Synagogues for a KLBD Roadshow. This enticed many of the viewers to research and buy the new products.

Ruislip Synagogue has regular Kabbalat Shabbat and Havdalah Services led by Rabbi Coten.

The Synagogue linked with Pinner US, Northwood & Pinner Liberal Synagogue, Kol Chai for a zoom meeting with Q&A, Speaker – David Simmonds MP, plus a zoom linked with Northwood US on a Q&A evening regarding Covid Vaccinations, which was very enlightening.

Ruislip has continued to maintain its regular Social Club on zoom and meet every Monday afternoon for “tea and a chat” This has now developed into holding brief fun quizzes.

A film evening was screened in June of The Green Park Hotel, Bournemouth, followed by members memories of the hotel.

The Community itself automatically kept in touch with other members of the Synagogue to make sure all was well either by telephone and/or ‘front door’ visits. Delivering meals, nosh and errands to those at home either unwell or shielding. The volunteers go much further than Ruislip as volunteers distributing food generally and sorting clothes in large warehouses. One of our sprightly 90 year old ladies managed a daily early morning sponsored walk to raise funds for Hatzola Edgware Charity Ambulance Service.

For a very small community the contributions from Ruislip members, who volunteered help even further afield, has been extremely large. Covid has not beaten Ruislip Synagogue’s members’ morale and there is a “Silver Lining” to this crisis which has brought the members even closer together.


A very pleasant evening was spent at Ruislip United Synagogue on Friday 21 February 2020, when a Shabbat Dinner and talk took place. The meal was up to the usual high standards with many thanks to the Synagogue Catering Committee and those who volunteered to assist.

Rabbi Stanley Coten welcomed all to the evening’s Service and Event and also welcomed our guests, Doreen and Jeffrey Samuels. Doreen had kindly offered to give a talk relating to the Shabbat Parsha for the following day. Doreen’s title was a clever misquotation “How do I count thee? Let me love the ways” – An insight into significant numbers in Judaism. This was a truly fascinating and very interesting talk on how important numbers are in Judaism, especially as far as the Jewish Calendar and dates for the Yom Tovim are concerned. It included how we stay in the appropriate Hebrew months and the fact that every 19 years there is a whole month included to take account of the leap year. As Doreen pointed out, these remarkable mathematical problems were sorted out some 3000 years ago and they still work well! All present had fun participating in a quiz on numbers of special interest in Judaism.

Finally, our Synagogue Chairman, Menahem Briskman, gave a vote of thanks to the Speaker and to all those who had helped to make it such a pleasant and informative evening.


This year the Guild arranged a wonderful Chanucah luncheon and entertainment to a ‘full house’.

Rabbi Stanley Coten began the event by introducing and welcoming the London Cantorial Choir to Ruislip Synagogue.

Then began an aptly hot winter menu of hot pea soup, viennas with jacket potatoes and Israeli salad, followed by fresh fruit and mint chocolates was just perfect and there were many compliments from those who attended. During the interval there were hot drinks and the inevitable doughnuts.

After lunch we all sat back to relax and listen in awe to the London Cantorial Choir rendering beautiful melodic performances including outstanding solos accompanied by their talented pianist. There were psalms from the Sabbath and Yom Tovim to Ladino folk songs and Italian opera arias. A truly sparkling afternoon of sheer joy.

The atmosphere throughout the afternoon was one of congeniality.

Rabbi Stanley Coten, thanked the entertainers and also all those who had helped to organise and arrange the event and to all those who attended.

It made a cold day feel very warm.


Neshama Event at the South Hampstead Synagogue – Sunday 22 September 2019

This was definitely an inspirational evening, which was enjoyed by the ladies who attended from Ruislip Synagogue. The atmosphere was warm and friendly; the venue was amazing.

The introductory presentation was so well done I seriously felt the video should be shown in ALL junior and secondary schools throughout the UK because of its message to the young to strive for their dreams of the future and care about others especially the disabled and elderly.

There were many presentations from which to choose and we were allowed two each. The two presentations I chose were – Ascent Through Song with Rebbetzen Dr Hadassah Fromson, who was very informative and her very accomplished guitarist.

My second choice was Rebbetzen Lauren Levin who gave a remarkable presentation – Yom Kippur a Journey in Prayer – she spoke with such fervour, conveying her complete conviction and faith for which I only have the greatest admiration.

The buffet catering was of a very high standard with several delicious salads and fish dishes for the main meal. The desserts were amazing with fresh fruit kebabs, mini pastries and petit fours.

The conclusion with community singing accompanied by a harpist and guitarist, of the prayers for the New Year was a wonderful way to end a very special evening.


On Sunday evening, 8th September 2019 at Ruislip Synagogue Hall community members and friends attended a magical evening of excellent food followed by musical entertainment from the trio Reb Menasche and the Shul Hoppers.

The evening was opened enthusiastically by Rabbi Stanley Coten who introduced the entertainers, Reb Menasche and the Shul Hoppers, and Mrs Scharf (wife of Menasche, who is also their musical director) and welcomed everyone and thanked the Guild for arranging their Summer Event.

The Guild Committee provided the most wonderful two course meal produced in the Synagogue kitchen. Following this Reb Menasche and the Shul Hoppers, delighted us with their selection of Israeli and New Year songs and music. The lovely voice of Reb Menasche mingled with his two very talented accompanists on violin and guitar made for a very freilich evening.

To add to all this pleasure Mr Menasche Scharf and Mrs Scharf also shared their 32nd wedding anniversary with the Community including a surprise celebration heart shaped forest gateau cake, which completed our meal to perfection.

It was a perfect evening, with thanks to David Koten for giving the vote of thanks and who managed to get two more encores from the trio for a cheering audience. Andrea, Ladies’ Guild Chairman, gave her thanks to all who had helped to make the evening a magnificent success.

Many grateful thanks to Jeffrey for volunteering their services for the safety and security of all who attended. Thanks to those unable to attend who sent generous donations and not but not least to our wonderful Guild Committee, stalwartly lead by Guild Chairman, Andrea, for giving their time to weeks of organising and helping throughout the event day in preparing everything which resulted in the success this special evening became.


Ten members of Ruislip Synagogue attended the Rebecca Sieff Luncheon held in the Synagogue Hall following the WIZO AGM on 3rd July

Ruislip was very proud to have two of its stalwart members, Carole and Elaine Franklin, awarded The Woman of Worth Award for all their good work with WIZO. May they continue to be able to help and enjoy all the efforts they make for others. Both these ladies have committed themselves to the very nub of the Jewish Religion “Love they neighbour as thyself”.


Germaine Hanstead gave an explanatory introduction about Ros Eisen and her charity work with the Jews of Uganda.

It all began when Ros was doing a tour of Uganda that she came across this unique group of Uganda Jews living in a small village called Putti; they called themselves Abayudayas. During her short stay she kept in touch with the group and realized that their needs for proper care and food supplies was an immediate emergency and in the few days she was visiting she arranged for supplies of mosquito nets, a chicken farm organized by a local vet; and for a local doctor to give much needed medication, especially for the elderly and the very young.

On Ros’s return home to NW London she carried on caring for these people and managed to involve the services of WJR to assist with further needs. Eventually farming was introduced and the Abayudayas are now beginning to have a better lifestyle. An article on Ros’s achievements was reported in the Times and the Jewish Chronicle. The American Community are now also involved and aiding these Jews as best they can. Ros has her own small charity, which spends 95% of their monies on the people and the area. It is a small charitable group who pay for their own trips to Uganda and many of the necessary needs of the Abaydayas.

Ros showed slides of the people and the area they live in, including photographs of a celebration of the anniversary of the State of Israel, which the Ugandan government had organized.

At the conclusion of Ros’s talk and slide show several questions were asked and there was much discussion.

Rabbi Stanley Coten gave the vote of thanks.

Light refreshments concluded a pleasant evening.

Mind over Terror – Sunday 12 May 2019

On Sunday 12 May 2019 Rabbi Dov Benyaacov-Kurtsman enthralled the 40+ audience at Ruislip United Synagogue when he spoke of how his Charity ‘Heads Up’ was brought from a small glimmer of an idea to what it is today 2.1/2 years later. The system of training his team began in Israel, unique in the world for helping traumatised victims of all sorts of tragic events. Using the same system, Rabbi Dov has brought it to the UK not only to treat victims of terrorist attacks but those survivors from car accidents and fires, such as Grenfell Tower in London. At the present time his team consists of over 90 volunteers continually training for every kind of emergency and he is looking for more volunteers, particularly ex-service personnel who want to make use of their past experiences.

Rabbi Stanley Coten said, that this was inspiring talk, its yet another way that Israeli knowhow can help British society.

The humanitarian benefits of this mode of treatment can be tremendous. I commend Rabbi Dov Ben Yaacov Kurtzman for what he has done.


Ruislip Synagogue once again celebrated Shabbat UK with a traditional Friday night meal. This is the fifth year we have commemorated in this way, which gets the community together and at the same time enables all members to partake in the full joys of our traditions, including the associated ceremonies and songs.

This has been yet another successful SHABBAT UK event with a gathering of approximately 50 members.

Rabbi Stanley Coten said that Shabbat UK has brought everyone together and all felt connected to the community. Over Shabbat, the singing, the learning and the overall experience was amazing. This was possible due to the hard work of all the Ruislip Synagogue volunteers.

Before Chazan Yossi Saunders entertained his audience with songs and jokes, he told us he had learnt it was also Rabbi Stanley and Rebbetzin Rosalind’s 32nd wedding anniversary and Yossi sang one song especially for them.

A delicious three-course meal was served by the Synagogue’s Catering Committee and waitresses.

At the conclusion of the evening the Chairman, Menachem Briskman, gave his thanks to all who had helped to make the event such a success namely, our Guest Chazan, Yossi Saunders, the Catering Committee and waitresses and last, but not least, to The Chief Rabbi’s Centre of Excellence for their generosity and guidance.


Emeritus Professor David Katz from University College London gave a talk on Jewish Medical Ethics on 11 February 2019.

He specialises in immunopathology.

He explained how he became interested in that field through reading Franz Rosenzweig’s The Star of Redemption, and later being influenced by the former Chief Rabbi Jacobovits’ work on Jewish Medical Ethics.

When Israel came into being in 1948, laws were created to cover all faiths, not just Judaism.

This meant that many laws and procedures deviated from that of the UK, such as those governing autopsies.

He gave examples of medical dilemmas, highlighting what medical consent means, and how it is interpreted in various circumstances such as : Brit Mila , stem cell applications, end of life care, organ donation etc. In many of these situations not only was the Israeli system different to the UK, but there was more than one interpretation of what test should be applied in this country.

All in all, it became apparent that Medical Ethics and the application of Jewish Halacha is very complex and indeed a moral maze, often raising more questions than answers.


After the resounding success of last year’s full house Chanucah Celebrations Jazz Evening, The Ruislip Synagogue Ladies’ Guild, by popular request, were able to book the Hillingdon Youth Jazz Band for a return visit to this year’s Chanucah Party held on Sunday 2 December 2018 to yet another full house of 80 people.

Rabbi Stanley Coten extended a very warm welcome to all who attended. The Rabbi lit the first Chanucah candle, said the Barucha, everyone sang Ma’oz Tzur.

The Jazz Band performed to their usual high standard, including such favourites as Girl from Ipanema, In the Mood and Fly Me to the Moon. Melvyn Care, the conductor, mentioned, that with the donation that the Guild gave them last year the band was able to purchase, amongst other things, a piece of music called Zebrano, which they would normally not be able to afford and those who attended had the pleasure of hearing it played by the Jazz Band for the first time; a very difficult piece, managed with great panache.

Rabbi Stanley stated that one of the visitors was Rabbi Livingston, who was also the Senior Chaplin to the Armed Forces and as such was used to hearing brass bands playing and he thought the Hillingdon Jazz Band was definitely up to Armed Forces standards – no small accolade!

A Vienna meal was served; an auction took place and raffle tickets were sold, followed by the second half of the concert.

The Guild Chairman, Andrea, gave her thanks to the band, those attending and to all who had volunteered their help to make the evening run smoothly. Andrea then called out the lucky numbers for the raffle.

Menahem, Chairman of the Ruislip Synagogue Board, concluded the evening by thanking all the hardworking members of the Ladies Guild and the loyal group of Synagogue volunteers who had worked so diligently to make the evening a very joyful event.

Menahem also went on to say that we were privileged to be able to host this wonderful band for the second year running. The band is a credit to the borough of Hillingdon, and his only regret the fact there was not enough space to accommodate all who wished to attend.

A member of the audience, who was visiting from another Synagogue, is very keen to see if the band can come and perform at her Synagogue.

The Jazz Band has been a feature within the educational services of Hillingdon for over 40 years. There have been many changes over the decades. The young musicians work with professional players; they perform at many events such as the Albert Hall, travelling on a 40ft lorry in a New Year’s celebration parade representing Hillingdon, plus their performances at local venues now including Ruislip Synagogue for the second year running.

The band rehearses on a weekly basis during term time and consists of trumpets, trombones, saxophones and a rhythm section. The young players come from all areas of Hillingdon Borough and the funds raised by their performances help towards buying sheet music, instruments and tuition fees where necessary. It is inspirational to see these youngsters playing so earnestly and showing the good side of some very talented teenagers. Their very dedicated music master, Melvyn Care, who plays an enormous part in improving their abilities and success, assists them, in no small way. Of course, not forgetting the parents who willingly and joyfully support their off-spring to the world of music.


Immediate first aid treatment while waiting for an ambulance is critical in cases of heart attack. We have had a defibrillator for some time, but there has been no formal training in its use.

St Johns Ambulance arranged a course at our synagogue on 10th October covering all aspects of first response to a heart attack including the use of the defibrillator. Ten Ruislip members completed the course and received a certificate.

Film ‘Above and Beyond’ Show and Meal – 10th June 2018 – Report by Angela Feuer

Film ‘Above and Beyond’ Show and Meal – l0th June 2018 by Angela Feuer

Nearly 50 people attended the film show on the l0th June at Ruislip Synagogue, and were treated to a nourishing and appetising Fish and Chip Supper which fuelled the inner man before the showing.

Carole gave a heartfelt tribute to Andrea, Chairman of the Ladies Guild, who had so capably organised everybody in her own inimitable fashion.

The story behind the film ‘Above and Beyond’ was of American and Canadian pilots together with some British personnel who helped after the Second World War, to establish the Israeli Air Force.

It was a very emotive experience listening to and watching the film trace the beginning of the State of Israel. In 1948 the British left Palestine leaving the Jews very little and indeed with no military aircraft. As soon as the British left others wanted to invade the land and take it over.

Ben Gurion went to the United States to plead for money to buy equipment, but Truman set up an embargo of goods and arms to Palestine, which tied Israel’s hands.

Al Swimmer who was an advocate for Israel realised that aircraft were urgently needed, and he provided $5,000 to purchase aircraft, which was a wonderful gesture.

However, Israel needed pilots to man the aircraft and preferably Jewish ones. There were many Jewish pilots in the USA, but Truman again discouraged them by stating that anyone who went to Israel to fly would lose their citizenship. Despite these setbacks Panama and Czechoslovakia helped, together with Italy’s Rome (which was in effect the Headquarters of the Haganah) and pilots came from the U.S.A and other countries to fly the aircraft for Israel.

One can truly believe Israel is an article of faith as it was meant to be…….

This film was dedicated to the volunteers and kept the audience spellbound as the events unfolded.

A wonderful evening which left the audience discussing the film and realising how much was done by so few.

Rabbi Stanley Coten thanked Andrea and the Ladies Guild for choosing the film and put forward the idea that Sixth Forms should see this epic as it would inspire them all. He also thanked Jeff for running the film. One could argue it was really a ‘family affair’!


An illustrated Talk by Rebbetzen Ilana Epstein

Ruislip’s Chairman, Menaham Briskman, welcomed a very talented individual, Rebbetzen Ilana Epstein to be the speaker for the Wolfson Memorial Lecture in memory of Rev. David Wolfson who had been a stalwart leading the congregation for many years. The Rebbetzen, who is from Cockfosters and Southgate United Synagogue, qualified in History of Art and among her credits is being a member of the Living and Learning Team of the United Synagogue.

He also said how pleased he was to welcome visitors from other synagogues as well as acknowledging his delight at having the Wolfson family ‘tribe’ attending this event.

Rebbetzen Ilana explained that she was approaching her subject in a different fashion – through art and showing how Jerusalem is the centre of every map.

Her exposition which was original, and fascinating held everyone spellbound at the breadth of her knowledge of the artwork. To quote but a few: –

The first clover leaf map of 1581 showed Jerusalem at the centre point.

Abraham meeting the King of the city of Jerusalem by Rubens

Abraham and Isaac, the sacrifice at the Temple Mount, Jerusalem. This Chagall painting depicts blue angels, Isaac coloured in yellow, and Abraham red.

An 1860 wood carving depicting Jeremiah bemoaning the destruction of the first Temple of Jerusalem.

We learnt about the history of Jerusalem through the art chosen by the Rebbetzen, and various titbits of information which were hitherto unknown, for example

Alexander the Great gave permission for religious freedom to the Jews and male children of that era born to Priests were called Alexander in his honour.

Herod, Rabbi Ilana explained, was half Arab, half Jewish, and was the best builder of all. Unfortunately, most of his edifices were destroyed by Titus, but Titus’s Arch can still be seen in Rome.

This whistle-stop tour of Jerusalem also incorporated Titian whose artistic endeavours portrayed ‘Suleiman the Magnificent’ – the man who built Jerusalem.

Finally, the last painting gave an intimate glimpse into Rebbetzen Ilana’s personal history as it was a picture of the Old City of Jerusalem painted 4 years ago by her mother, who is herself an artist of some renown.
Rabbi Coten said he was delighted to give the vote of thanks and said, on behalf of all the assembly, that Rebbetzen Ilana had literally blown us away with her breadth of knowledge and complete mastery of the subject and by making sure that we all realise that Jerusalem is one of the most important places in the Middle East.

Helen Briskman presented the speaker with a plant and said how much she enjoyed the talk.

LIFE on the OCEAN WAVES OR the OTHER SIDE of the PORTHOLE! – Report by Angela Feuer

Daniel Edward, a young member of the Synagogue, is Assistant Cruise Director for Entertainment on the ‘Navigator of the Seas’. He gave a very interesting and amusing expose of life at sea on 1st May, after the Ladies Guild AGM.

The ‘Navigator’, his ship, is part of the Royal Caribbean Fleet of Cruise Ships, and the audience was treated to a peek at the functional areas for the staff which are set apart and a far cry from the luxurious accommodation provided for guests. The Navigator was built in 2002, and as a ship’s life is approximately 45 years there is constant checking and maintenance on every vessel to make sure it is seaworthy.

Safety is of prime importance for the ship as well as for the passengers and crew and is taken very seriously indeed with essential weekly training drills for all ship’s personnel. In case of an emergency the crew needs to know before the passengers. Daniel is in charge of evacuation. Then every crew member and passenger is checked. That is why it is essential that the passengers attend the safety drill briefing at the beginning of the cruise so that they know what to do in case of an emergency.

Daniel’s slide show featured the very basic accommodation given to junior members of staff, and it was to say the least – MINUTE! No wonder he wanted to advance his status and as such he has been promoted to better accommodation with much more space and even has a porthole! He has worked with this line since 2014, and has spent 650 days at sea. He works 10 hours a day 7 days a week, and has an entertainment team which varies from 6-10 persons.

All crew members do their own washing and ironing, except for their uniforms, so now you know why they always look pristine! The crew mess is virtually identical to the guests’ buffet, and food is good and plentiful. Due to the unpredictability of the hours staff work, it is open most of the time. Even though ships used to be very hierarchical this has changed and now senior staff and crew tend to eat together. There are many places for the crew to have a drink and let their hair down – cafes, dance areas, gyms etc. but in case you think it is totally glamorous there is a downside. Alcohol temptation sometimes raises its ugly head and once every two months a person loses his/her job due to being drunk and incapable. This inevitably puts pressure on the rest of the team who then have extra work to do.

On every ship they have a Friday Night Service for Jewish passengers, and on the ‘Navigator’, Daniel is to the fore organising the Challah, and attending the Service. He even received the ‘Do you know I’m Jewish’ Award! It is true to say that there are not many individual Jewish crew members on board, but Daniel certainly flies the flag, and is a wonderful example to follow.

He concluded his talk with a slide show of a few of his favourite places he has visited – Lisbon, Cadiz, Norway, Azores, Madeira and Agadir. Questions from the audience flowed thick and fast and he further explained many points which he had not covered in his talk.

Jackie Agasee gave the vote of thanks for an excellent, entertaining talk which the audience at Ruislip Synagogue did not want to end.

Daniel truly is an entertainer! and the only thing I can say now is “CARRY ON CRUISING”!!

TALK by LUKE AKEHURST – 26th April – Report by Angela Feuer

Luke Akehurst, Director of ‘We Believe in Israel’, the campaign wing of BICOM, former member of Labour’s International Executive Committee was our guest Speaker.

Menahem Briskman, who chaired the meeting, welcomed the audience, some of whom were so keen that they arrived very early in order to hear Luke Akehurst speak. He said he was especially happy to welcome those people from other synagogues and mentioned that the refreshments were sponsored by the Ruislip Social Club so that there was no charge for the evening.

Luke Akehurst first of all explained the current situation of the Labour Party. A passionate supporter of Israel, even though he is not of the Jewish persuasion, he stands in solidarity with his Jewish friends and colleagues, together with other like minded individuals. He has had a long association with the Labour Party post WWII, and visits Israel frequently, so he is well aware of the current situation.

He posed the question – how did Labour get in such a bad place, and explored the situation which led to the ensuing problems. He did not believe that it started with the election of Jeremy Corbyn, but had its roots many years previously in Israel seeming like an aggressor during the Six Day War in 1967, and indeed by the Iraq War in 2003, which caused a real anti-militaritistic attitude. Combined with these influences, Ed Milliband who was the leader of the Labour Party for a brief time, was a very secular Jew, and he made concessions at the Warwick Conference so that Israel would not be boycotted. He changed the way Labour elected its members, scrapped the system so that anyone could pay £3 and elect who they wanted. Unfortunately this did not work.

Luke considered several points which he explored in detail with his audience, viz:
Corbyn’s victory in 2015, partly obtained by mass recruitment using mailing lists of single-issue campaigns, including PSC and Stop the War Coalition. This was shared by key personnel.
Entry into the party of people previously involved in Greens and far left parties with anti-Israel ideologies.
Energising of a wider group of new members for whom being anti-Israel is de rigueur.
Long term movement to left and towards BDS of Trade Unions, especially Unite.
Ideology of Marxist Left – class analysis so against faith and national identification, anti-imperialism, anti-American, anti-Semitism, Trotskyist and Stalinist variants.
Separate but linked problem of Muslim antipathy towards Israel.
There has been a sharp upturn of anti-Semitic incidents in Labour and almost all are examples of anti-Semitic anti-Zionism – Israel/Nazi, blood libel, conspiracy theories and what is more other randomness about slave trade and the Shoah.
However, it was made clear that if a person is anti-Semitic they should be expelled from the Labour Party. There has, as a consequence, been a resurgence of JLM and the Labour Friends of Israel. Despite these influences the whole situation is a mess. There has been a launch of JVL, and rejection of IHRA.

Luke ended on a somewhat depressing note in that he said the Jewish fraternity and other allies need to stand up and be actively involved with counteracting these influences. In other words, report any anti-Semitism points to the CST.

Finally, he posed the question “Does one stay inside the Labour Party and fight from within, or stay out and try to influence others that way?”

There was a spirited rendering of questions and statements from the floor at the conclusion of Luke’s talk which was interesting and informative, and hopefully provided a vehicle for progression for the future.

The vote of thanks was given by Esther Taffel who in a succinct phrase ‘We are a lot wiser than we were before!’, summed up what we had heard in this scintillating talk by Luke, an impassioned advocate of Israel.

Ruislip Seder Service – 16 April – Report by Angela Feuer

On the first night of Pesach Ruislip Shul held a very successful Seder service. This was the first one we have held for many years. It was attended by 40 people from both Ruislip as well as our friends from local communities of Pinner, Northwood, Belmont and Wembley. The Seder Service was conducted by our Rabbi, Rabbi Stanley Coten.

It was great seeing the children with their parents and grandparents all enjoying and contributing to the evening. Rabbi Stanley got everyone involved in the Service and gave informative explanations on the text throughout the evening. Andrew Olswang sang the Mah Nishtana and the rest of us joined in.

The meal which consisted of the traditional egg and salt water, chopped liver, egg and onion, beef bourgignon, potato kugel, salads, fruit and chocolate brownies and was extremely enjoyable.

Traditional Pesach songs were sang at the end of the service and the Seder finished around 11pm.

We would like to thank our Catering Committee and volunteers without whom the Seder service would not have been a success.


Ruislip Synagogue held a Melava Malka at which Rabbi Hershi Vogel was the invited speaker. Before the talk the 35 + guests were served a tasty three-course meal which was provided by the Ladies Guild.

Rabbi Vogel is currently the Rabbi of Ealing United Synagogue and is also Chaplain to Heathrow Airport.

He explained his background and how he had first been sent by the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, to Venezuela for 2 years. Even in the 1990s it was a corrupt country and not safe to openly wear, in public, his suit or any Jewish accoutrements.

He then moved to Brooklyn, became a Rabbi and married his wife, of 26 years.

In 1995 he became Rabbi of the Croydon Federation Synagogue and in 1998 he went over to the United Synagogue and finally became Rabbi of Ealing Synagogue.

According to Rabbi Vogel, an Anglican Chaplain had approached the then Chief Rabbi, Lord Sacks, and asked why there was no Jewish Chaplain at Heathrow Airport. In 1999 Lord Sacks asked Rabbi Vogel if he would consider this position. He accepted and has been in this situation ever since.

The job is entirely voluntary, and he gave examples of some of the variety of situations where he has been asked to intervene. Many dealt with immigration problems, especially lack of visas and of course bereavements. His ability to speak Yiddish and Hebrew is an advantage when he is assisting the ultra- orthodox from Israel or the States. He also visits the detention centre at Harmonsworth, where he says many non-Jewish detainees claim they are Jewish because the kosher food is far better than the usual meals provided!

Rabbi Vogel is on call 24/7 and is one of 26 Chaplains at Heathrow. They have all formed a Whatsapp group and help each other out regardless of faith.

The evening was enjoyed by all.

Liz and David Koten, Rabbi Hershi Vogel, Rabbi Stanley and Rosalind Coten, Menachem and Helene Briskman.


Hillingdon Youth Jazz Band entertained us at the Ruislip Ladies Guild’s Chanukah Celebration held on 17 December 2017, in a scintillating and vibrant fashion. The 21-piece group of boys and girls, aged between 13 and 18, as well as featuring our own home-grown talent of Samuel Davis (on the keyboard), showed the 100 plus people crowded into the hall, what it was to be part of a ‘big band’.

Melvyn Care – their mentor – reformed it in 1986 from what it was in the 70’s, and since then it has gone from strength to strength – mainly he says, due to the quality of dedicated staff teaching in Hillingdon schools. The band has been involved with ‘Youth Makes Music’ at the Royal Albert Hall and they play music across the genre from all of the great composers. Melvyn, himself, has just been awarded the Michael Craxton Award for 2017 for outstanding contribution to the Arts in the London Borough of Hillingdon.

Rabbi Coten welcomed Melvyn and the Band and said how the conductor/mentor had galvanised youth. Rabbi Coten lit the six candles and read the blessing, incidentally teaching the non-Jewish participants some Hebrew as well. Andrea, Chairman of the Ladies Guild, then added her thanks to the group for their time and efforts, and expressed her thanks to Melvyn for coming ‘from his sick bed’ as the show must go on and he wanted to support his band of talented youngsters.

There then followed musical arrangements – ‘Fly Me to the Moon’, ‘Hallo’, ‘In the Mood’, ‘Don’t know why’, ‘Pick Up the
Pieces’ and ‘Watermelon Man’, all interspersed with further information about the band. Melvyn also introduced, to the audience, many soloists – too numerous to identify by name in this article.

The final, before the interval, ‘Bird Land’ had some history behind it. This was played originally to mark the end of the existence of the band, but fortunately, like the phoenix, it rose again and the band continued.

After a very satisfying repast of Viennas, baked potatoes, Israeli salad and other accompaniments, we ended our meal with donuts and satsumas followed by tea and coffee. It is a tribute to the Ruislip Ladies Guild’s efficiency and hard work that the 100 plus people were served very swiftly and they deserve an accolade for their efforts.

The second half of our musical journey heard the band play Count Basie tunes, including ‘Chameleon’. The final arrangement was that of ‘Sing, Sang, Sung’ which was greeted with rapturous applause. Thus ended a musical journey which was very professional and much enjoyed by all. I can personally vouch for the fact, that despite warnings, it was not really too loud!!

A raffle concluded the evening which was well patronised by everybody.


Ruislip Synagogue marked Mitzvah Day on 19th November by joining the United Synagogue Chesed to collect food for the Chipping Barnet food bank. The food bank provides nutritionally balanced emergency food for hungry people in crisis. We were given a crate for this purpose, and our members filled it to capacity.

RUISLIP’S SENSATIONAL SHABBAT UK! 2017 – Report by Angela Feuer

Ruislip celebrated Shabbat UK on Friday 27th October 2017 in a fine style with over 80 people seated enjoying a wonderful repast and singing their hearts out accompanied by the talented Chazzan Yossi Saunders who had come back to Ruislip specially for this event.

Rabbi Stanley Coten acted as the Master of Ceremonies for this event and regaled the throng with some very good jokes, as well as expressing the background to Shabbat UK. He mentioned that it was initiated in South Africa last year and Chief Rabbi Mirvis called for all Jews across the UK, regardless of their level of observance, to celebrate a Shabbat unlike any other, on the last weekend of October. This was an incredible opportunity to join with fellow Jews all over the world, to experience the beauty of Shabbat, and this initiative has brought many thousands of Jews across the UK together celebrating a Shabbat like no other.

Rabbi Coten then mentioned Chazzan Yossi who would entertain Ruislip members and their friends and said he needed no introduction as he was a ‘returner!’ and extremely popular. We were then regaled by many songs starting with a rousing Shalom Aleichem and branching out to a variety from Fiddler on the Roof to Italian epics. The crowd was enthusiastic and what is more participative – a member of the Synagogue, Lawrence Taylor, even joined the Chazzan to sing ‘If I was a rich man’. This took guts!

Congregants and friends were treated to a wonderful repast which was supplemented by wine provided by Esther and Martin Taffel with an enormous cake decorated in honour of Martin’s 90th birthday, which was on that same day.

This was really a truly auspicious evening which we all enjoyed, and hopefully Ruislip will have many more events of this calibre.

BALFOUR TALK – 13 September 2017 – Report by Angela Feuer

On Wednesday 13 September Ruislip Synagogue was proud to welcome Rabbi Aubrey Hersh, Senior Lecturer at the Jewish Learning Exchange, whose talk was about the Balfour Declaration and the momentous events leading up the birth of the State of Israel.

He spoke eloquently of the different elements of the historical puzzle that took place in 1948 and reminded his audience of the worth of watching documents about ‘above and beyond’ pilots from the USA who volunteered to help Israel in 1948 and who then became part of Israel’s fledgling airforce.

One of the keynotes of Rabbi Hersh’s lecture was that we see the power of individuals who have changed the course of history, for example – a single individual set off a chain of events by the assassination of the crown prince which led to the first World War, and subsequently to the Second World War. Not all these people were in favour of the creation of the State of Israel but they all had an effect.

Rabbi Hersh explained the background to the years leading to the Balfour Declaration in 1917, in that the Yishuv in Ottoman Palestine hoped that a British victory would help advance the Zionist dream of re-establishing a homeland for the Jewish people in Palestine. The creation of an autonomous state was not necessarily a goal but was seen as a possibility.

He spoke of other influential Jewish individuals involved with the Balfour Declaration viz Lord Lionel Walter Rothschild and Chaim Weitzmann (in favour) and Edwin Samuel Montague who was against. As a scientist, Chaim Weitzmann gained enormous respect due to his development of a method to make acetone, which is essential to the production of cordite used in a variety of munitions, and crucial to the war effort.

Through his work he got to know all the powerful people, such as Lord Rothschild and Lord Balfour and Herbert Samuel, and through them propagated his wish for a Jewish homeland. However, Edwin Samuel Montague, a thoroughly assimilated Jew, who was a member of the Cabinet, was completely anti this concept. Despite this opposition the Balfour Declaration went through in 1917 and was then endorsed by the San Remo Conference in 1920.

But although the Balfour Declaration was ratified, Weitzmann was upset. Palestine was still under the British Mandate and governed by them.

Rabbi Hersh emphasized the power of the individual illustrated by a humble man – Eddie Jacobson, an American army man and his friend – Harry Truman. They opened an haberdashery shop together after serving their time in the forces. Unfortunately the shop collapsed in 1921 and Truman went into politics, subsequently becoming President of the USA while his erstwhile partner paid back the debts.

The Zionists wanted Truman to see Weitzmann and Eddie Jacobson, through his long association with Truman, was instrumental in getting the two together. There were disturbances in Palestine and something had to be done so the concept of partition was mooted and America was one of the main countries interested in a solution at the United Nations. At the end of August UNSCOP signed the report and map that would form the basis for UN Resolution 181.

In 29 November 1947 the partition plan was passed and this date should be remembered as the international acknowledgement of the Jewish right to settle a Jewish state in our ancient homeland.

However it took the Six Day War 1967 to cement the fact that the Jewish people did indeed have their own state.

The vote of thanks was given by Helene Briskman who thanked Rabbi Hersh for a wonderful exposition.

Alvin Barnett, one of Ruislip’s esteemed members then took centre stage, and presented a book of all his lectures and things he has done over many years to the Synagogue. ‘The Text Iluminated’ is his work which he has been doing for over 30 years, and he originally contemplated throwing away all his references, and then decided to make a book of these items for his son and grandson. In effect – it was a labour of love! The first copy of the text was presented to the family Wolfson at the Wolfson Memorial Lecture earlier in the year and was so popular they want extra copies!!

The meal was sponsored by United Synagogue and the 50 participants had a most interesting evening.

Ladies Guild Summer Event – 18 June 2017

One could argue that fate had conspired to have a wonderful sunny day for the Ladies Guild Event held on Sunday 18th June – in fact, it was the hottest day of the year on record! even beating Tel Aviv’s 28 degrees!!!

Andrea welcomed the assembled throng of 50 congregants and friends and said how pleased she was to see us all for the function, and introducing Stephen Lieb, virtuoso on the piano/keyboard and singer, entertainer de luxe. As if this was not enough, Stephen also is the son of one of our congregants, so it kept it – as one could say – within the family.

There was an enormous buffet, and magnificent food created by the Ladies Guild members who worked like Trojans in the morning and late into the afternoon preparing the feast which was appreciated by all. Stephen entertained the group in his own inimitable style with selections from Fiddler on the Roof, My Fair Lady and others. He even put on the mask for Phantom of the Opera which was very well received, after which he entertained us all with a medley of old time music hall tunes.

Rev David Wolfson z”l 7th Annual Memorial Lecture 2017

The Rev. David Wolfson’s z’l Memorial Lecture, on Wednesday 26 April 2017, our guest speaker was Rabbi Geoffrey Shisler. ‘The title of his talk was ‘Things you never knew about the Siddur.Menahem Briskman welcomed one and all and said how pleased he was to see Rev Wolfson’s family and Rabbi Shisler on this auspicious occasion. Rabbi Stanley Coten pointed out that it was also the very first lecture that Ruislip Synagogue had hosted as members of the family of the United Synagogue, and he trusted that there would be many such occasions in the future. Rabbi Shisler reminisced that Rev. Wolfson z’l presided over Ruislip’s congregation from 1974-2010, and that he remembered David Wolfson as having the twin virtues of humility and the ability to make friends – these attributes endearing him to all who knew him. He then went on to ask (rhetorically) several questions- “what is in our prayers? why do we say things”, and he also posed the question of the history of the prayer book and from whence it came.

Melave Malka at Ruislip Synagogue 2017

As part of, or as a continuation of Ruislip Synagogue’s 70th Anniversary celebration year, congregants were invited to a Melave Malka on Saturday 14 January at 7.30 pm. Incidentally, it was the coldest night we have experienced so far in 2017! Despite the inclement weather 40 plus guests enjoyed the warm welcome, food and entertainment by Chazan Eliot Alderman, accompanied by Samuel Davis on the keyboard.

Rabbi Stanley, acting as Master of Ceremony, thanked everyone for coming, and explained the meaning of Melave Malka. After introducing Chazan Eliot and Samuel Davis, he congratulated Samuel Davis on his attaining Grade 6 violin with merit, which was wonderful news.